50 year old Des has been brought to
50 岁的 Des
Saint George's by ambulance after
collapsing at a tube station I had a bit
在地铁站晕倒后被救护车送往圣乔治医院，我
of a turn on the train on the way in to
在去上班的路上在火车上有点晕倒，
work just went down a lot of Spuds and
刚吃了很多 Spuds，
they just called an ambulance
他们就叫了一辆救护车，
his partner Jane is at home
他的搭档 Jane 在家
Janie's my uh partner of now this is s16
Janie 是我的伴侣，现在是第 16 季，
I think we're coming up to 16 years
我想我们在一起已经 16 年了，
we've been together
me and Jane aren't married we're as good
我和 Jane 还没有结婚，我们关系很好，
as you know it's everything but the ring
你知道，除了戒指
and the paper don't rush over there's no
和纸，什么都有 别急着过去，没有
there's no dying I won't as far as I'm
死亡，我不会的，据我
aware I'm not dying
所知，我没有死，
we met online
我们在网上认识的，
I got a message on Friends reunited I
我在朋友重聚时收到了一条消息，我
just replied
只是回复了，
and then we got talking and met the
然后我们开始聊天，并在
following Friday
接下来的星期五见面了，
Desmond they're calling me in now
德斯蒙德 他们现在在叫我
darling but all right babe
亲爱的，但没关系宝贝
[Music]
[音乐]
just a quick question has someone taken
只是一个简单的问题，有人
blood from you yes and he had a lovely
从你身上抽血了吗，是的，他有一个可爱的
smile knock your Bandy kind of smile
微笑，敲你的班迪式微笑，是
what's brought you in today
什么让你今天来，
um I was traveling into work and started
嗯，我正在去上班的路上 开始
to feel a bit light-headed feeling odd
感觉有点头晕，感觉奇怪，
heavy chested I felt like I was
胸口沉重，感觉
struggling to breathe I felt like I
呼吸困难，感觉
wanted to faint but that heart was
想晕倒，但心脏在
pounding yeah pumping that's today but
跳动，是的，跳动，那是今天，但
I've had it for probably about four or
我大概已经这样四
five weeks on and off four or five weeks
五个星期了， 已经休息了四五个星期
now sometimes it feels like your heart's
了，有时候感觉心脏
pounding quite quickly yes yeah yeah how
跳得很快，是的，是的，
often does this happen every day
这种情况每天发生的频率是多少，
at least once a day okay and you were
每天至少一次，好吧，你
getting on the train to go to work go to
正要上火车去上班，去
work yeah yeah and you work for the well
上班，是的，你上班
certainly not just not just the big fan
当然，不只是粉丝，
it's fancy dress
这是化装舞会，
I'm a postman
我是一名邮递员，
I'm just gonna start by lying you flat
我先让你平躺，
okay okay
好吧，好吧，
I've been married twice before
我结过两次婚，
I've got two children Stephen and Lauren
我有两个孩子，斯蒂芬和劳伦，
with our second wife
我们的第二个孩子 妻子，
just let me know if anything I do is
如果我做的任何事情让你感到痛苦，请告诉我，
painful join as a daughter Dion we've
作为女儿，迪翁，我们
both been there seeing it done it and
都经历过，看到了，做了，
got the T-shirt
得到了T恤，
let me set you back up now
让我帮你重新站起来，
what I didn't do was jump headlong in
我没有一头扎进去，
because kids have always got me first
因为 孩子们总是让我首先得到
and foremost some nice deep breaths from
一些深呼吸，
me we didn't rush into introducing kids
我们并没有急于把孩子们
into
带入
our new equation because then if it all
我们的新 方程式，因为如果一切都
goes set off then that's just gonna
开始，那么这只会让
confuse the kids
孩子们感到困惑，
so I think with the new development of
所以我认为随着这个中央粉碎事件的新发展，是的，
this Central crushing yeah yeah
Sensation that you've been having the
感觉你一直在经历
thing that we would want to rule out and
我们想要排除并
be very worried about is a possible
非常担心的事情 有可能
heart attack yes okay yes so that's what
心脏病发作是的，好的，是的，所以这就是
we're going to look for in some of the
我们要在一些血液中寻找的东西，
Bloods let's see what the results and
让我们看看结果如何，
then we'll make a more informed decision
然后我们做出更明智的决定是
yeah
的，
okay yep
好的，是的，
we took it so steadily
我们非常稳定地
um you know sometimes we go a week
嗯，你知道有时候 我们有一个星期
without seeing each other
没有见面
and I think that probably stems from my
，我想这可能源于我的
childhood
童年，
I just knew that I didn't want the kids
我只知道我不想让孩子们
having that life I'd experienced growing
过上我小时候经历过的生活，
up
my mum and dad weren't together long
after I was born
我出生后不久，我的父母就不在一起了 我
don't remember my dad being around see
不记得我爸爸在身边，
if I'm honest
如果我没记错的话，
I was a couple of years old and Mum met
我当时才几岁，妈妈遇到了
somebody else and we all moved to
别人，我们都搬到了
Wandsworth
旺兹沃斯，
my mum the stepdad and me and my brother
我妈妈、继父、我和弟弟，
yeah yeah go and wait in the car and
是的，去车里等着
I'll call you
我会打电话给你，
he's just one of those upbringings that
他只是其中一个成长经历，
was uh not great um so it's not
呃 不是很好嗯所以这不是
something I don't really
我不太会
talk a bit I will explain it to people
说的事情如果有人问我会向人们解释
if people ask because I'm usually asked
因为我经常被问到
well you're always happy you're always
你总是很开心你总是
smiling I've got only got to think back
微笑我只需要回想一下
to what it used to be like to what it is
和以前一样，和
now all right all right all right okay
现在一样，好吧，好吧，好吧，
bye bye
再见，
we were very strictly
我们非常严格，
you hear the key in the door I remember
你听到门上的钥匙声，我记得
I always felt unhappy whenever
我总是感到不开心，每当
um he used to come home
他回家的时候，
I felt like there was no affection
我感觉 没有感情，
certainly No Love
当然没有爱，
I have a ccg let me bring that over
我有一个ccg，让我把它带过来，
you know mum always made it as best as
你知道妈妈总是尽她所能为我们做最好的，
she could for us but yeah it was yeah it
但是是的，是的，
was it was tough
这很艰难，
it's called holidays we spent a lot of
这叫做假期，我们花了很多
time in a bedroom so it's uh how happy
时间在卧室里，所以 呃
can you be you know one year we went
你能有多幸福你知道有一年我们
back to school we had to write an essay
回到学校我们必须写一篇
about what we've done for the school
关于我们在学校假期做了什么的文章
holidays now I've been to my bedroom for
现在我一直呆在我的卧室
the whole time
so I made up a story about going skiing
所以我编了一个故事 关于去滑雪
I've never been skiing I think I've
我从来没有滑过雪我想我
barely even seen snow
甚至几乎没见过雪
I can't paint either a face on if you
我也不会画脸 如果你
like just for the outside world
now I can see that it was unsettled
现在只喜欢外面的世界，我可以看到它是不稳定的，
I mean in the ends I left home when I
我的意思是，我16岁时就离开了家。
was 16.
um because it got to the point where I
嗯，因为到了我
had to she's waking away out in the car
不得不离开的地步，她在车里醒来，
because she said there's a lot of
因为她说 有很多人
waiting list to get into a e anyway
等待进入急诊室，无论如何，
she's bought my daughter with her so
她把我的女儿带在身边，所以
they're just gonna go and wait in the
他们只能去车里等着，
car
things that had affected me when I was a
这些事情在我小时候影响了我，
kid then affected
然后影响了
um relationships
我的人际关系，我和
two marriages under me built
两个孩子建立了婚姻，
it's safe to say that there were things
这是安全的 说有些事情
that I should have done differently
我应该做些不同的事情，
but the hardest thing was leaving the
但最困难的是让
children without any shed over there
孩子们在那里没有任何棚子，
but it was all done for the right reason
但这一切都是出于正当理由，
probably actually got to spend more
可能实际上比我们在一起时能花更多
quality time with them
的时间和他们
um than if we stay together
在一起
hey mate it does how you feeling all
嘿，伙计，你感觉怎么样？好的，
right thank you
谢谢你，我们
still waiting for most of the blood
仍在等待大部分血液
results the one that we're waiting on
检查结果，我们正在等待的
specifically it's something called
是一种叫做
troponin it's something that your heart
肌钙蛋白的东西，它是心脏
releases when it's damaged okay so in
受损时释放的物质，所以在
instances where you have a heart attack
心脏受损的情况下 攻击
and you don't get enough oxygen and
，你得不到足够的氧气和
blood supply to a certain part of your
血液供应 你内心的某个部分，
heart yeah yeah that part will start to
是的，那个部分将开始
die off okay and that's what we monitor
消亡，好吧，这就是我们监控的
the number one's outside your wife's
头号人物，你的妻子在
outside is she well I did something not
外面，她好吧，我做了一些事情，一
to come in the first place I know but
开始就不来，我知道，但
they love you so what can you do and
他们爱你，所以能怎么样 你这样做，
they just don't do as it's old yeah yeah
他们只是不这样做，因为它是旧的是的，是的，
back in a second okay mate thank you
回到第二个好的伙伴谢谢你
when me and Jane got together Dion's
当我和简在一起的时候迪翁的
daughter was about four years old
女儿大约四岁，
she used to love skipping I used to stay
她曾经喜欢跳绳我曾经
in there for hours and hours spinning
在那里呆了好几个小时 旋转
her ropes for a jump so I went into a
绳索以便跳跃，所以我走进一
tree and just spin room
棵树，只是旋转房间，
if people are important to the people
如果人们对你周围的人很重要，
around you then they should be important
那么他们对你也应该很重要
to you as well
we've made sure that it was the right
我们已经确定这是正确的
thing kids all met the girls got on
事情，孩子们 认识了这些女孩后，她们相处得
straight
很好，
they still call each other sisters to
直到今天她们仍然称彼此为姐妹，
this day
they all gotten great
她们都
for being Jane it was lovely to get them
因为成为简而变得很棒，让她们
all together
聚在一起真是太好了
I didn't even think about being a
我甚至没有想过要成为
stepfather to me it was just about being
我的继父，这只是关于成为
a dead
死了
you care you love
你关心你爱
she still sees her dead I'm not dads
她仍然看到她死了我不是爸爸
um but I'm here if she wants me
嗯但我在这里 如果她想要我
and when you're called for that's when
当你被叫的时候，
you were there
你就在那里
there's Mond
有蒙德，
then one day last year it was a Monday
然后去年有一天，那是星期一，
and we was just here cooking dinner Jane
我们刚刚在这里做晚饭，简
was just making a pot of gravy yeah she
刚刚做了一锅肉汁，是的，她
put the curtain she turned around I was
拉上窗帘她转过身我
at the fridge and she turned around and
在冰箱旁她转过身
she looked I could just see you she'd
她看着我只能看到你她
gone
走了她
her eyes were just but she was looking
的眼睛只是但她在看着
at me but not looking at me
我但没有看着我
and as I've walked towards it to say
当我走向它时
you're right she just fainted and in
你说得对，她只是晕倒了，在她
this awful rattling noise she was making
发出的可怕的嘎嘎声中，我
called 999.
拨打了999。
and by this time she'd stopped breathing
这时她已经停止了呼吸，
so I gave a CPR
所以我给她做了心肺复苏，
the ambulance crew turned up
救护人员赶到了
and then whisked her off and one of the
，然后把她抬走了，
other crew took me and done up to sir
另一个 工作人员把我带到
George's
乔治爵士的
音乐中
and they come in and explained it was a
，他们进来解释说这是一次
major brain hemorrhage
严重的脑溢血，
she was in the coma
她处于昏迷状态，
the scariest part was that when they
最可怕的是，当他们
started explaining how severe it is and
开始解释情况有多严重时，
that's when
you get a little bit
你就会有一点
oh this isn't good
哦，这不好，
and that's when the old days kicks in
那是 当旧时光开始回荡，
where it's just like make sure everybody
就像确保其他人都安好一样，
else is all right
Dion was 18. you know this young isn't
迪翁当时 18 岁。你知道这么年轻，不是
it I think the worst
吗？我认为
that could happen to your mum
对你妈妈来说最糟糕的事情
that's when me and Dion really bonded
就是那时我和迪翁真正建立了联系，
because we only had each other
因为我们只有
we'd sit there and have a cuddle if we
如果我们需要的话，我们会坐在那里拥抱，
needed it and if she wanted to cry she
如果她想哭，她也
could cry
可以哭，
you cemented the relationship for us
你巩固了我们的关系，
we've experienced something together
我们一起经历了家里其他人都没有经历过的事情，
that nobody else in the
family has
doctors now have the results of Dez's
现在医生已经知道了 Dez 的检查结果
tests
测试结果
does hello
你好，
so all the blood results have come back
所以所有的血液结果都出来了，
yep okay
是的，
everything looks pretty much normal your
一切看起来都很正常，你的
tropona was less than three right which
肌钙蛋白小于3，对吧，这
is good yeah yeah yeah it's so low that
很好，是的，是的，它太低了，所以
it's unlikely the damage would have been
heard in the first place right okay so
一开始就不太可能听到损伤，对吧，好的
we're quite happy to send you home from
出于紧急情况，我们很乐意送你回家，是的，
an emergency kind of perspective yeah
是
yeah keep an eye on it if it happens
的，如果再次发生这种情况，请密切关注，
again yeah if you still get the chest
是的，如果你仍然感到胸部
heaviness yeah you come straight back
沉重，是的，你就直接回来，
here okay yeah yeah I know somebody
好的，是的，我知道有人
that's sitting outside that's going to
坐在外面
go what happened what did they say what
要去发生什么事了他们说了什么
did I say I'm gonna say
我说了什么 我想说
I can't really remember but I'm all
我真的记不清了，但我没事，
right
so the moment she left that hospital it
所以她离开医院的那一刻，我
was
很
nerve-wracking it really was nice to
紧张，很高兴
meet you thank you very much appreciate
见到你，非常感谢，
it thanks mate
谢谢，伙计，
but we're
但我们
extremely lucky because we're we're out
非常幸运 因为我们在
the other side of it
另一边
foreign
外国
it doesn't have to be blood
不一定非要有血缘关系，
a family is it any a group of people
一个家庭，任何一群人
that can be reliant on each other can
都可以互相依赖，可以
call on each other
互相呼唤
me Jane and the kids so that's our
Jane 和孩子们，这就是我们的
little group
小团体，
we're happy so that's it that's the
我们很高兴，这就是
important thing
最重要的事情，